Vanessa & Xander – The Art Of Initiation

Turn “Not tonight” into “Lock the door!”

The secret? Great sex starts with great initiation.

Because when you feel seen, desired, and truly connected, intimacy isn’t a maybe—it’s a hell yes.

It’s A Practical, Playful, And Wildly Effective Online Course That Will Help You And Your Partner Finally Understand What You Both Need To Feel Excited About Getting Intimate.

Say hello to The Art Of Initiation—because you deserve so much more than “wanna do it?”

Forget waiting, second-guessing, or hoping your partner “gets the hint.”

With The Art Of Initiation, you’ll learn exactly how to initiate intimacy with confidence—and get the response you actually want.

Why good initiation matters:

• Fewer rejections = more intimacy
• No more “roommate” mode—just magnetic attraction
• Builds trust, emotional connection, confidence, and desire

Here’s what’s waiting for you inside The Art Of Initiation:

• Practical ways to create and sustain more emotional intimacy. (Because when you start feeling like a true team again, physical connection becomes something you both crave!)
• Why differing libidos don’t need to stop you from experiencing the intimacy you deserve—and how skillful initiation can actually bridge the gap!
• How to confidently know and express exactly what turns you on—and get the same from your partner.
• The game-changing initiation questions you never knew to ask, including how your “Ideal Conditions” can turn a “no” into a “YES PLEASE!” (This one is a total game-changer!)
• Confidence-building hacks that will get you initiating with ease—even if you never have before.
• 61 creative and exciting examples of how to initiate!
• Our step-by-step guidelines for irresistable initiation.
• The secret to staying connected even if one of you isn’t open to having sex in a particular moment.
• Your real reasons for saying “yes.” (Hint: being horny actually has very little to do with it, and there’s an entire step-by-step process.)

Here’s What You’ll Get

• 8 sex therapist-designed modules with real-world, practical strategies you can start using immediately
• 61 creative, foolproof ways to initiate (so you never have to wonder what to do)
• Confidence-boosting techniques to help you initiate without hesitation or fear of rejection
• Step-by-step scripts that make every invitation feel exciting and well-received
• The secret to turning “not tonight” into “yes, please”—without pressure or resentment
• How to respond to initiation in a way that strengthens your connection instead of shutting it down
• Audio + written formats so you can listen on the go or read at your own pace
• Imagine a relationship where initiating intimacy feels natural, exciting, and mutually wanted.
• That’s exactly what The Art Of Initiation will teach you.
• Ready to make the first move and never look back?Lifetime access so you can revisit these tools anytime
• Only 10-15 minutes per module—transform your sex life in as little as one week!

About Vanessa and Xander Marin

About Vanessa

I’m a licensed psychotherapist and serious goofball. You know what drives me nuts? The fact that sex is one of the main reasons couples break up. This is a totally solvable problem, but we have to start talking about it. Hang with me, friend and I’ll give you the tools you need to strengthen your relationship and have a bangin’ sex life to boot!

I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University and a master’s degree in counseling psychology. I’ve been featured in thousands — yes, THOUSANDS — of magazines and online articles as a sex expert. You may have seen me in O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, Harper’s Bazaar, and Refinery29. I’ve also written pieces for Allure, LifeHacker, Bustle, and a little news outlet called The New York Times.

About Xander Marin

I’m the resident penis-owner here. I used to work at Google, but quit when I realized it’s way more fun to talk about sex with my wife all day. While Vanessa’s the certified sex expert, I bring the regular dude perspective to our work. Together as a couple, we’re here to show you that it’s possible to get more comfortable and confident talking about sex.

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